Yeah, right you didn't think I was going to write about how to fall in love were you? In my opinion Love is something that we create in our own minds and unjustifiably attach those good feelings on to another person. We make them into this wonderful perfect human being that we can't imagine living without even when they're not. I don't mean to sound cold or unromantic, but that's what Love really boils down to. It's not healthy when either you or the girl act that way. Then it becomes neediness and as we all know neediness is unattractive both to the girl and to you. It doesn't make any sense to fall in love when you can just appreciate each others company. That's really how relationships you work. It should be like a plant. You don't want to overfeed or underfeed it. You want to give it the amount of light and water each day then you go about doing your business.